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Archive for May, 2014



Dating Guru’s Mailbag: Are any men interested in me?

Thursday, May 29th, 2014

Here is the latest question sent it for our Dating Guru

Asian Fashion Man

“Dear James, I would like to know what sort of men I can expect to date. I have pursued a career in the wrong area and am now going back to university at the age of 31 and living with my parents I want to know if there are Muslim guys out there that are interested in women like me. R”

Hi R,

Thank you for your question.

Of course there are lots of men who would want to date you!  I read today that a quarter of all 34 year old men are still at home with their parents.
 There’s nothing wrong with that OR with wanting to improve yourself and your life.  The question is…what steps are you taking to meet decent men?  I’d suggest that you put a plan together to start getting yourself out there and interacting with them.   Stop thinking of reasons why they won’t be interested and work out exactly why they might be.  If you don’t think you are worthy then how can you expect them to?
I’d suggest that you start with some online dating and then try one of our Muslim introduction events. When you come, don’t talk about the negatives but focus on your positive traits instead.
I will you lot of luck and happiness.
James

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