Do you know what the most powerful
dating skill you have is?
The most attractive tool you have available is your voice. If you speak well, in a well modulated and interesting way then people will this.
So this is obviously one of the most important things you can work on if you wish to improve your dating success. It’s especially useful during a Muslim speed dating event as you will want to make sure that the other person is listening carefully. Here are my top tips to making your sure they pay attention:
1) Keep Eye Contact. This shows confidence and the person you are talking to will find it hard to look away. The more eye contact you use then the more compelling you will sound. Just remember to smile too and look away every now and again.
2) Lean in and speak quieter. You should try and decrease the amount of space between you, making things a little more intimate. This will increase your rapport and allow you speak a little quieter – forcing them to listen.
3) Record yourself. Most modern mobile phones have a “recording” function nowadays. The only way you can really hear what you sound like is to record something and then play it back. Try reading a poem or song lyrics out loud. If you don’t like what you hear then practice it again until you are more comfortable. Remember, if you don’t like your voice then how can you expect someone else to?
4) Speak passionately. Always make sure that you have plenty to talk about. If you don’t then both your minds will wander and you’ll be bored. So talk about whatever it is your are passionate about. You’ll find you smile more and your eyes light up when you discuss something that you like.
5) Listen. Ask lots of questions and look like you are fascinated by their answers . This will set the example and show them how they ought to be responding when you speak.
James Preece – The Dating Guru
www.muslimsinglesolution.com
