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Will love happen when I stop trying?

Saturday, July 13th, 2013

Here’s some advice


on how to find love

There’s a well known saying that you’ll find love when you stop trying and don’t expect it.   People say that if you just forget about finding someone then they’ll find you anyway.

So should you stop looking?

My advice is absolutely not!  While I do believe it’s true to a certain extent, it’s also a fantastic excuse to do refuse responsibility.  If you are a happy, positive frame of mind and ready for love then it will come your way. The big secret is that you do have to give it a helping hand.

If you want to get something in life, whether it’s love, money, a new job or even a holiday then you need to take action.   For example, if you’d like a new job then you’d polish up your CV, send it out to prospective employees and attend some interviews.   You just wouldn’t sit back, do nothing and wait for one to find you.  Event if one magically does then you can guarantee it won’t be the best one you could possibly dream of.

So what should you do?  Well as well as the obvious things like going out on dates, why not try and do more for yourself.   Use your spare time to go out and get a new haircut, hit the gym or buy some new outfits.  Take the chance to sign up to learn some new skills, such as dancing or cooking. They will all help you feel and look amazing, which will therefore make it easier to meet someone wonderful.  If you enjoy your life and enjoy being who are then others will naturally want to share it with you.

The bottom line is this: Love will find you in the end but you need to help it along the way by being open and ready for it!

Good luck,

James Preece – The Dating Guru

Our Feedback from June

Monday, July 8th, 2013

June was another great

month for the site

We get many emails each week telling us what you are up to and about your dating successes.

Here are just a few of them:

” I enjoyed the speed dating” PZ

” I met someone on your dating site, and am no longer single Feed back : The service was amazing.” SN

“Good service”  AA

“It was good to get updates of new candidates and you kept me well informed thank you” OH

“It was was really good” SP

“The venue was a good choice, central location.”  SC

“All in all a good service” AP

“Very good” JH

“Excellent” ZA


If you have one to add, don’t hesitate to contact us and let us know : [email protected]


Best Wishes,
The Muslim Single Solution.

Is something coming between you?

Monday, July 1st, 2013

There’s one very common thing

that could be ruining your relationships

Everyone leads such busy lives nowadays and we feel the constant pressure to keep on top of everything.  Technology has made things a little easier but this could be one of the main reasons that you are still single!

Picture the scene.  You are out on a first date with someone you are interested in and you enjoying chatting away.   Then you start to notice they have a rather annoying habit.  Every few minutes they pull out their phone and start checking texts.  This gets progressively worse during the even as they spend longer and longer answering writing messages.  The final straw comes when they take a call.

Has this happened to you?  Even worse, is this something YOU have done yourself during a date?

Your mobile phone can be your best friend or your worst enemy.  When you are out on a date, it’s all about first impressions. The whole point of meeting is to get to know each other and make them feel important.  If you keep constantly checking your phone then this will come across as extremely rude and that you couldn’t care less about talking to them.

I’ve even heard of someone taking a photo of their date and then forwarding it to a friend for feedback.  This is completely unacceptable .  So here are the three big rules when it comes to phones and date:

1) Turn it off

2) Put it away

3) Leave it in your pocket/ bag until the end of the date

It’s that simple.  If you really are expecting an urgent message then tell your date in advance and put the phone on silent.  If you pre-warn them then they are much more likely to be understanding if you need to reply.

James Preece – The Dating Guru