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Archive for June, 2013

Why have my messages disappeared?

Sunday, June 23rd, 2013

If you have vanishing sent messages

Perhaps this could be why.


We often get emails asking where sent messages have disappeared to on the site.

Well, in order to keep things running smoothly, messages are automatically deleted after 60 days. Otherwise your inbox could end up getting very confusing.  If you wish to save messages for a longer period, then you can archive them.

As well as this, if the other person deletes the message, or deletes their profile, the the message will also disappear from your sent message folder too.

You should also be aware that messages in bold haven’t been read yet. This is usually because they’ve not yet logged in or aren’t able to read messages as they don’t have credits or a membership.

If you are keen to hear from them, it’s always worth sending another message “reply paid” as that might encourage them to read and reply to you.

James Preece – The Dating Guru

May Feedback

Monday, June 17th, 2013

Here are our latest

feedbacks from June

June was another great month for the site. We get many emails each week telling us what you are up to and about your dating successes.

Here are just a few of them:

“Good service” NA

“Thanks a lot for organising the Muslim speed-dating events, they work quite well and are a great way to meet fellow muslims!” SK

“Nice website” MS

“Service was great” HH

“You are doing a great job” SH

“Fantastic event” AP

If you have one to add, don’t hesitate to contact us and let us know : [email protected]


Best Wishes,
The Muslim Single Solution.

The important of Smiles

Monday, June 10th, 2013

A good smile is the key

to successful dates


If you want to make people believe you are honest, friendly and trustworthy then you have to learn to smile.

If a baby wants you to like him then he’ll giggle and smile.  That’s because smiling is a natural instinct that we all learn very early on.  By showing our teeth we are proving to the world that we are not a threat.  Therefore it increases empathy and makes other people trust you.

A good smile is one that lifts at the upward corners of the mouth and also the eyes.   A fake, insincere smile doesn’t last as long and can be spotted at the subconscious level.

Great teeth are a sign of health and good breeding so having bad teeth is the ultimate turn off.  If they are too discoloured it can make you look a lot older than you really are. They don’t have to be perfect as that can also be off putting. Clean and cared for is enough.

Always remember to floss your teeth and use a mouthwash before you talk to anyone.  Bad breath is never acceptable and even worse than not smiling at all.

Try and smile at everyone you meet, including people you might pass on the straight.  This small action can brighten someone’s day and chances are many will smile back.

Happy dating!

James Preece – the Dating Guru