Online Dating – making a good impression
Monday, February 28th, 2011It’s easy to have great success with online dating.
But it does need some effort to get things started.
So many people join an online dating site, such as Muslimsinglesolution.com, add a few words and then sit back and do nothing more. Then they wonder why they aren’t getting any interest or any replies to the odd message the send out.
I’d like you to imagine you were looking for a job. Would you scribble a short CV down on a bit of old newspaper? Would you not be bothered to send a cover note with it and then post it off to absolutely every job you liked the look of, whether you are qualified for it or not? What’s more, would you forget to put a stamp on the envelope so you wouldn’t even guarantee it got delivered?
This might sound mad, but it’s exactly how many people treat online dating. They’ll not bother with a photo, write a poor profile, send out hundreds of copy and pasted messages to members and forget to send a reply paid credit.
The secret is to think of how the other person is seeing you. You want to make the right first impression from the very start. So spend a little time crafting a fantastic profile and adding some great photos. Thay way you’ll stand out from the crowd and are more likely to get dates. Then send out carefully written emails to people you think might be a match. This is your “cover letter” and if you don’t do it properly it will just get deleted. Tell them what you have in common and why you might be a good match.
Finally, use the Muslimsinglesolution.com reply paid credit system and they will be able to read and reply to your message even if they haven’t yet upgraded.
A little bit of effort can really go a long way, so put some time in now and you’ll reap the rewards.
Good luck!
James Preece – The Dating Guru
www.muslimsinglesolution.com
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