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Wednesday, November 11th, 2009

Muslim Dating in the UK

Muslim culture has many ancient traditions including rules on how to go about Muslim Dating. For centuries, unmarried Muslims were introduced through extended family connections. Marriages were arranged in such a way that the bride and groom often did not even meet each other until the day of the marriage.

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Muslim Speed Dating Events

MuslimSingleSolution.com organise regular speed dating events for Muslim single professionals to meet. The events are aimed at those of South Asian descent, eg Pakistan, India, Bangladesh. These events are currently organised monthly in London cafes, or restaurants where alcohol is not usually served. Typically they attract 30 to 40 professionals. The events are relaxed and quite informal. The events provide a very efficient way for guests to meet a large number of people in a short time.

Muslim Dating UK

In Western countries such as the United Kingdom, times have changed for Muslim people, but the ancient ideals remain something to be respected. Muslims want to meet someone and get to know them before committing to spend the rest of their lives with. This is difficult if their parents disapprove and even the word “dating” is frowned upon?

However, Muslim Singles in the UK have more options than ever before, but must still be careful to tread lightly so as not to confuse or upset their older family members. The main fear of these older and more conservative Muslims is that “dating” will not lead to wholesome time spent for their young family member with their future husband or wife, but rather to casual sex and the more disposable relationships that have become more common in the Western hemisphere for young adults. Since extramarital sex is completely off limits for the Muslim faith, Muslims are faced with a quandary if they want to spend some time with someone before taking their marriage vows. Here are some ways to meet a British Muslim partner.

Dating Chaperones

Another way for Muslims to meet and interact with each other is through chaperoned dating. This allows a couple to spend time together in a safe environment without the temptation of attraction and privacy to make them compromise their values. The man and woman would be able to sit together in a semi-private area of the home or meet in a public place and talk and learn more about each other. Chaperones (preferably not their parents) would be nearby to dissuade them from getting intimate.

Congregational Outreach
More and more Muslim communities are starting to understand the importance of young Muslims getting to know each other before signing on to a lifelong commitment of marriage. Therefore, even churches are getting on board with planning events that have a strong religious connection while also allowing Muslims to interact and mingle with each other. Socials, Koran studies, and community service projects gather young Muslims together in a fun and wholesome environment to reach a common goal, which helps build teamwork for potential mates as well. Although most Muslim women have never even seen the inside of a mosque, that practice is changing slowly but surely and events are being held at the mosque more and more often.

It’s not easy to keep sacred strong religious values in such a modern and changing world. However, these ideas, coupled with the ever growing Muslim acceptance, will hopefully aid young Muslims in finding Mr. and Mrs. Right.

Rules for a Great Date

Tuesday, March 31st, 2009

Do you want to have amazing dates?

Here are some great tips for you.

If you are seeking a marriage partner then learning to date is very important.  Here are some helpful tips :

1) Be kind and considerate. Observe good manners and treat your date as you’d wish to be treated yourself.

2) Be generous. For the best outcome, men should always offer to pay but women should not take advantage of this and over the period of several dates then the women should take their turn.

3) Take an interest, make sure you a good listener. People love it when you pay attention to them and they’ll instinctively like you a lot more.

4) Use Body Language to your advantage– be friendly, smile and pay attention to the signals they are giving off too.

5) Be honest about your intentions and don’t play games. Follow up afterwards, even if you aren’t interested.

6) Do something around an activity, so the focus isn’t just on you. Make sure it’s something where you can both still talk and get to know each other.

7) Dress up, take pride in your appearance. Brush your hair, floss your teeth and make sure you smell nice. Remember you want to present the best version of yourself possible so do make the effort.

8 ) Have several talking points pre-prepared. This will make you seem interesting and helps fill any awkward silences

10) Pay a compliment or too to your date, but don’t go overboard.

Good luck!

James Preece   – The Dating Guru

Can I bring someone with me?

Thursday, March 5th, 2009

This is a common question we get asked about our speed dating events.

Is it ok to bring a friend?

Many people do bring their friends along to the events, but plenty of people do come on their own.  If you are a Premium Member and book with a friend you’ll both get the discount on the event.

What we don’t do it allow chaperones.  This is for two reasons.  First of all, it makes the other guests uncomfortable.  Speed dating is quite a personal,  intensive event and most guests won’t appreciate someone watching them.   The second reason is that the venues are small and there just isn’t room for anyone who’s not paid.

Remember that we have hosts at the events who will help settle in and make sure you are relaxed. If you are a bit nervous then do ask them for help as they might not be aware of this.

If you do come with friends to an event we’ll try and sit you near each other so you can chat during the breaks.

Good luck!
James Preece – The Dating Guru

www.muslimsinglesolution.com

Where is my event ticket?

Wednesday, March 4th, 2009

We often get asked about tickets.

Do you need an actual ticket?

We don’t issue printed tickets. Instead, when you sign up you will get an email confirmation from us. Please print this off if you’ve not been before and bring it with you. You just need to quote your “nickname” on the door when you arrive to one of our lovely hosts.

If you have booked for friends please make sure that they know the nicknames you signed them up with. This will usually be there first name and a number, unless you change it.

You can always make sure that you have booked by checking in your account and look under “My Events” on your home page once signed in.

Please make sure you are always on time for parties or you might miss out on meeting some of the guests and it makes it hard to manage.

If you didn’t book directly through www.muslimsinglesolution.com (ie via another ticket agency) it’s important that you register a quick profile on our site first. This also needs to be done for your friends. Once you’ve done this, email is at [email protected] and we can then add you to the guestlist.