Wondering why you aren’t getting much interest?
So you’ve filled out your profile, added a great photo and you’ve paid for a membership. Then you start sending out lots of personalised messages to other Muslim singles you like the look of. You know these are the most important steps to getting results when it comes to dating. So why aren’t you getting many replies?
Well, it might well be that you don’t have *enough* in your profile. If you haven’t written very much or your profile is too vague then many people might just overlook it completely.
This is because if you don’t write much it looks you are trying to hide something. Remember, the idea is to try to sell yourself and talk about all the things you have to offer. If you don’t write very much then it comes across that you are lazy and can’t be bothered. The popular members of a site such as Muslimsinglesolution.com will be getting lots of messages and will focus on replying only to the people who have made an effort. They just won’t have time to write to you if don’t have anything to say.
So take a few moments now to fill in more details, even if it’s just about your favourite hobbies, musical takes or sports you like. It also helps to write something topical, perhaps about a recent television show of film that you enjoyed.
The more “talking points” you have then the more there is to stimulate their imagination. It’s this that will make them curious about you and want to get to know more.
James Preece – The Dating Guru