Muslim Dating has it’s own rules.

So you need to remember to respect them at all times.

The most important thing is to remember to be respectful.  With faith comes boundaries and strong moral codes. However,  some people overlook this and then wonder why they aren’t successful at dating!   Men tend to be more relaxed about these matters but women take them much more seriously.

Here are my top tips to help:

1) Be clear about your intentions.  If you aren’t ready to get married then don’t mislead someone into thinking you are. Likewise, it’s not usually acceptable for someone to be dating more than one person at a time.  It’s also not acceptable to live with someone without being married.

2) Be truthful from the start.  Don’t lie about your height, age, size etc. Instead, be judged on the person you are.  If you pretend to be something you are not then once you have been caught out you’ll never regain that trust.

3) Don’t push.  Never put pressure on someone to meet you or to do something they’d rather not. Respect their wishes.

4) Accept.  If someone doesn’t think you are a good match then let it go and realise that a better match will come along.

5) Consider.  Always treat another person in the same way you’d like to be treated.  Remember your manners and be polite and courteous at all times. If you have a good time or they spend money on you then thank them for it.  In fact, you should probably thank them for their time and effort even if you don’t want to meet again.

Happy dating!

James Preece  – The Dating Guru

www.muslimsinglesolution.com

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Here are some of the success stories and feedbacks we had across the Single Solution sites.

“I’d like to take this opportunity to express how much I’ve enjoyed using the site and associated events, and the ongoing success it brings me in my dating life.” KT

“I have finally met the perfect one. Thanks for the help” DG

“Good site and the chat facility is a nice option to have.” AC

“Service is good and I enjoyed the speed dating event I went to.” KP

“Thanks for everything” TV

“Good website and genuine profiles” CG

“I think it is a good service and may use this service in the future.”  RP

“Worked for me! Been with my partner that I met on the website for almost a year now. Thanks.” PS

“The one event I attended was interesting and well organised” BS

“Thanks for a good service” RH

“I met someone on your dating site, and am no longer single. Feed back : A very good site.” RB

“I thought the site was good, and spoke with a couple of interesting people,I’d recommend it.” AA

“I’m no longer single. I thought the events were great though, especially the ice breaker so keep up the good work.” PS

“I met someone on your dating site, and am no longer single. Feed back : very very good.” DK

“Easy to use, good website” PK

“Good: Speed dating was enjoyable – great skill building! Venue: Pleasant, classy. Staff: Friendly. Website: Excellent and easy. Met a few interesting women and made good friends with at least 3; still dating two of them.” KT

“You provide a good service and have enjoyed the events I have been to” TT

“I think the website is really good” SJ

“Icebreakers are good to get even the nervous going. Keep it going you’re doing a good job.” AP

“Good mix of people, nice venue” RC

“Excellent servive…great customer service.. many thanks..ajay” AM

“Good site, easy to use.” SP

“Your site is very good, i did meet some interesting potential partners” GS

I’ve had some requests from men this week

They’ve asked how to talk to women during speed dating.

We all know that women and men think very differently, so I’ve put together some top tips to help you find things to talk about.

1) Talk about family as women want a man who is close to them. It shows stability, loyalty and a kind nature.

2) If you’ve got a pet, children or nieces/nephews/god children then talk about them – women want to know that you’ll make a good possible father to their future kids.

3) Don’t bring up past relationships, but talk about the future instead. Keep discussions positive.

4) It’s important that you talk about what you are passionate about. By doing so you will naturally get enthusiastic and this will rub off on your date.

5) LISTEN to her own dreams and passions and show that you are interested in them too.

6) Don’t try and offer advice if she talks about a problem.  She doesn’t want a solution, just the chance to air her thoughts.

7) If you are looking for a serious relationship then now is the time to ask them if they want the same. If not, don’t waste any more time.

8 ) If you want to know what women like to talk about, just buy some female magazines.  Keep up with pop culture and showbiz gossip and you’ll never be stuck for words.

9) Men like to talk about facts and figures but this just bores women.  So instead, paint pictures with your words.

10)  Most importantly, show them you are interested by whatever they have to say.

Do you have your own thoughts on this?  Ladies, what would you like a man to talk about?  What should they avoid?

Happy dating!
James Preece – the Dating Guru

www.muslimsinglesolution.com

We’ve got lots of high street gift vouchers to give out.

Read this to find out if we should be sending one your way.

We love getting success stories and we get them each and every day.  We always post the best ones to our blog, along with our latest feedback.

Recently we’ve heard about lots of marriages through our site, so we are pretty sure there are even more that we’ve not been told about yet.

If you have your own success story, then please do tell us about it so we can share this with our other members. By telling your story you can give other dating members a welcome boost in their search and confirming to everyone that our service really does works!

If you give us a quote and email us over a photograph of the pair of you we’ll send you a £25 gift voucher ( or a bottle fo champagne if you prefer)

To qualify, you will need to have been dating at least 2 months.

So get in touch now and share the love.

Happy dating,

James and Paul

www.muslimsinglesolution.com